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February 22, 2005
I need a hug
I was fifteen years old, we were having a get together at Homayoon's house, which was across from Fereydoon's house, I think Neda was with us too. We had talked about poetry, about life, and I was laying down on his bed, and then I felt cold and lonely. so I turned to the boys and said, I need a hug, and then Homayoon came and laid next to me and held me. Some mornings, when I come to the office, after my coffe, and first cigar of the day, i do feel cold, and I do need a hug. But these days I am much luckier, in our households, HUGS are the biggest currency, we hug every where, in the hallways, in the kitchen, I finish my every day, by hugging my two beauties and guide them to sleep. My kids come to me, and say DADDY I NEED A HUG, and they know they will get the warmest biggest bear hug ever. Women love hugs, they like to be held and cuddled, before after, any time, if a woman likes you they touch you, its like they try to contact on more primal basis. I learned hugging from the women in my life, I learned to be generous about them, and available. In the Gym where I excersize, they call me THE FLAMING STRAIGHT GUY, I am always touching, smilling, flirting, man, or women, I am an equall apportunity flirt. some get scared, specially men, when I go at them, right to their faces, and they dont know how to handle me, and I enjoy rattling their cages and shake their sensib ilities. poor souls, only if they knew;, so send me a HUG, just send it, you will make my day.
I think these pages have made my relationship with my sister more intimate. she reads them loyally, and I presume she enjoys them. At last she has found the older sister she never thought she had !!, we are not a close family, I have been always jelous of My wifes family, and how they love each other, how they enjoy each other's compony, and have found comfort in being a part of them, and its all thanks to AKRAM'S LOVING SOUL, I always say my mother in law fell in love with me sooner than my wife. and I owe her so, so much.
Well, Mia at dusk, did so much for Fereydoon , he left two comments, asking for her phone number, good, and I did a Barbara Walter on Maryam, and she cried after reading my right eye. Cyrus has been curiosly absent, probably snow boarding , or climbing somewhere. I tried yesterday to post Metal's poem, ALL THE PRETTIES, but could not get on the site to do that, hoefully today, Metal has posted a new poem WICKED BEAUTY, and dedicated it to me, that's so generous of her, hopefully she will let us to sample that too. she also has left comments, it is so good o have her here, and her contributions adds so much to these pages. I am also getting the ich to write a piece myself, I might post MY RIGHT EYE, on poets.com and see what happens. well, the UPS man is here, delivering one of my hugs, thanks, and incidently MARYAM, is promissin us a Rant, and I think she will write about PREGNANCY, she knows how I feel I have missed the bo0at on that one, YUP, men miss a lot by not getting pregnant and by not knowing, the art of giving life, and nurturing a promise. God that is so limiting for all men, but hey we get to put the garbage out........
Posted by Idinraha at February 22, 2005 08:05 AM
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Healthy relationship is based on give and take. In our family we have learned how to take but the giving part was never taught. No, not material giving but giving love....Here's my sad childhood story.
Posted by: Maryam at February 22, 2005 11:06 PM