Idinraha unshackled...

Indiraha, there is nothing wrong in focusing on failures as all those who succeeded also failed more than once in their lives. The difference with those who continued to fail or stayed as failures and those who succeeded, is that those who suceeded did not dwell on those failures. Learning from out mistakes and moving on are essential.

So you had some bad things happen, those events don't define who you are as a person. You are still you and your worth as a human being is not based on those incidents. Remember you are so much more than those negative events in your life. We can all sit here and look at our lives and count the failures we have accomplished; I hate to disappoint you but it does not require much talent ;-). However, how few of us can write such deep poetry? Realize that from that pit of darkness (your failures) came a fresh light - your talent as a writer and poet.

Not to detract from your post, ever read any of Sylvia Plath's poetry? Sylvia Plath suffered from deep depression. Let me know if you have heard of her. I think you will appreciate her poetry and work - there is even a film on her. She was married to Ted Hughes who was once Britian's Poet Laurette.

Dear SL, you lay me down, and such generosity in your comments, thanks for shedding a light, i now of Sylivia Platt, and hav read some of her poems,l however when it comes to peots with DISORDER, the Delicious Ms Anne SAXTON, is more of my Cup of poison, oh she takes me, I adore her self abused poetry, enjoy her shamelesness, and the pure sexuality of her poems, she has had a great effect on me and you can trace her in my poems, specially MY DEBUTANTES, and many other poems. My depression is just another attempt by me to get sympathy specially fron the oppsite sex, and there is plenty of Narcissism, and bravado in it.I am a silly man, as my kids call me, a silly daddy, who can not wait to grow up and at the same time I am enjoying the process, today I will post THE KISS, one of my favorite by
Delicious Ms, Sexton. and sweet SL, my wounds are mostly self induced, so I can feel more and write more, AM I GETTING DEFFENSIVE ? eh

If that is what gives you inspiration, then whom am I to take it away or tell you otherwise?

Funny how far one has to go for a morsel of inspiration. please do not stop telling, I find your pieces insightful, and can not get enough.

I think you will also like Stevie Smith; she is a favourite of my best friend who writes poetry. She loves Sylvia Plath - she studied her in college.

Idin^Ja, the writer in you is sooooo funnyyyyy! The man in you is soooo honest, and the woman in you IS the man in you,,,,, I am so glad your lovely wife knows just how to help you through your bouts of 'enlarged' head syndrome. Although your willingness to bare all through the use of such self-depravating humour makes it impossible for you suffer any permanant damage from your enlarged head. Besides I think your head has a lot of growing to do to catch up to your BIG PS I just came across a post where someone claimed you as a good friend (which I gathered as much from your writings) but I wanted to say that such a claim should be an honor.

Sweet, restless Chey, you are kind, and from what I saw of your pictures you do have a healthy big heart too. But sweet heart,your comments about the man and the woman in me is confusing me further, and God knows I am confused, just ribbing you. thanks for kind comments, and my wife is inline for sainthood after leaving with me as long as she has with such dedication.

I loved the quote you sent me, it was scrumpscious.
It is a blessing to have you here, tell us as much as you want, it would bea pleasure to listen,

Dear SL, thanks for the tip, I will look her up, do not stop telling us, about anything, anytime, I am nozy, and I like to listen

I was checking my spammail and came across one with the subject "you deserve a bigger penis" and I immediately thought of forwarding it to you.

Thanks my friend, For your selfless consideration, But I like my penis, as it is, warts an all(figure of speech), I like the shape,
and the way it feels , it has been a good loyal friend, getting me through many a thight situations, a source of joy, and ecstasy, very loyal, and understanding, though recently more and more reclusive, but eternally optimistic. The size have been fine, since I am not rying to find employment in any industries that have that kind of requirements, kind of avarage and all together OK, but thank you anyway.

So predictable of a MAN. Adoring your penis as expected. Not to mention showing off your balls through that silk underwear. Whatever works buddy!

Not addoring, I already gave you credit, by reporting yours being bigger than mine, and I just wanted to reassure you that I was ok since you suggested that mine might need enhancing, actually mine, is not really mine, I leave it at home, where Marjan keeps it in the fridge, for safekeeping. You see now, You found your way to the gutter, and I followed you. very MANLY of us.

so what else is new , 2 grown men with an all female audience engage in cpa (comparative penile analysis).

SL has been taking notes as usual, Inasy is having nothing to do with this topic, and me ,,well I've made tea of course! Carry on^lol

Javaad Jan, as for your conscious comment: YESS, YOU followed MY lead and you are responsible for what YOU do. Wherever I was or I am going, gutter or not, by NOW you should know that I think before I talk/write and when I do something or say there is a reason, but I am watching your back don't worry. I already know you have big balls!

I am a man, I am happy that I am one and I wouldn't change it for a minute. And yet I love women for what THEY are. Your silk and their panties is none of my business just as my boxers are of noone else's. I have no problem with this site, but as I have already said it, it is too feminine for ME.

Females want me because I am a male. If anyone has problem with my comments or the male in me, so be it. This new world trend is slowly stripping men of their identity and it already had done that to women. Women and some men deny it all day long but the fact remains that EVERYONE EITHER HAS A PENIS OR WANTS ONE.

But isn't it amazing that you can say ALL you want and the minute I say it, the gutter it is?
Use the same wand for all, is for your own good father. You keep doing it MAN.

BTW: I have a big smile on my face as I write as man who is not a poet or a writer :-)

My sweet Fereydoon, You should know by now everything written here, except the poems is in a jest, just muzings, I love gutters, we come here to have fun, but somehow I think you were not only telling me this, God kno0ws there is enough pain an missery outside theses doors, so take your shoes off, let me robb your back, give me a hug, and lets have some sweet tea.

"You should know by now everything written here, except the poems is in a jest, just muzings"

Yes I knew, and now I am glad everyone else does too including what I say here.

I hope you don't think that all the new life here is just cooincidental. It deserved it and I am doing my part, just as your new friends are. I hand picked them personally and very selectively over the past few months, and I knew you will give them the warm persian hospitality that you have and they deserve. Yes idinraha is a work in progress and I'll see in to it that Inas finds you in the book store next to her own book. Remember I never left you even when you thought I did ;-)