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May 16, 2005
Parenthood
Rainy days and Mondays, well it is overcast here, it seems we have lost the sun for the time being, it feels a bit like Seattle, or London, so Top of the morning to you all. WHERE IS INASY?, I have not had any comments from her in a while, I think she might be busy with her submitions and the deadline, we wish her luck, and hope to see her back here, she writes so well, it is inspiring. Well life goes on, The Third week of May is always busy and happy for me and my family since both my beauties are born in May, Kiana on May 15, and Amin, on May 17th, actually Kiana would have been born on May 17th also, but we thouhgt it would be better for each of them to have their own special day.
We made both our babies on Vacations, no plans on either one of them, just faith and its blessings, We could actually tell you what day, you trace it back, and it fall right on August 23rd, and that is our Wedding aniversary, and you married men know, that you can always count on those special days, YOUR BIRTHDAY, HER BIRTHDAY, and ANNIVERSAY DAY, and sometimes on VALENTINES DAY, we, married men usually get lucky, and get some LOVIN. So Amin, was made while we were in Carabian, on a cruise. that is why he has darker complexion, and Kiana was made on our trip to seattle, SHE DOES HAVE MUCH LIGHTER SKIN, AS I SAID NEITHER ONE WAS PLANNED, but since then, my wife does stay away from me, a week before and a week after our anniversary, and on our anniversary night, I get to sleep down stairs.
the woman has every right, I love kids, and if physically I could bear them myself, we would have a dozen, I am also very good in taking care of infants, the smell of my kids dippers used to make me high, and I used to lick them and bite them all over( the kids, not the diappers). When Amin was born, Akram and I used to fight who would change his diappers, or give him a bath. I also used to shower both of them myself, holding them in my arms, and wash them, and my litle angel Kiana used to fall sleep in my arm, the steam and water getting to her.
Staurday was the day of Reckning for Amin, He lost all his games, game books, the CD's, all and all, he is forced to go Cold Turkey.
Marjan was brave enough to give him the news, and after two days of grieving and accusing his mother and me to be Mean, he has accepted his fate. Marjan has moved all of them somewher, probably where she kkeeps the chocolates and cookkies away from me.
I bought Amin his first NINTENDO, since we where told that he had problems with his eye/hand cordination. So I thought playing the game would remedy that, and it sure did. That was five years ago, and my son also has an addictive personality like his father, so it was time for the games to go, this way Amin would get to socialise with his peers and cousins more, and that will be good for him. He did make a deal with his mother yesterday, He would stay away from all of his games for one full year, and would try to improve his social life, and get more involved in sports, proving himself, and if he does that , he would get his games back. We are hopping that by then, the Hormones have kicked in, he would discover girls and would not even look back.
Posted by Idinraha at May 16, 2005 10:34 AM
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I am still here, checking in on occassion, with only a few fleeting moments to spare, I have not had the luxery of writing anything worthy of being read. I have no plans to submit to anything, except myself to some worthless cause.
I am glad to see you post so many maternally inspired rants about breastfeeding and giving birth, since I will be spending the week trying to assist my dearest friend in the delivery of her second child. The first was a very difficult labor of over 50 hours. I am not looking forward to it, since it brings back such painful memories of giving natural birth to my own three. I have been commissioned to ROMANTICIZE what is an otherwise very painful and unsanitary experience. I think I will have to cajole, NO BEG HER to please take an epideral.
Thank you for writing as you do, your words are idyllic and inspirational. You seem to lead a very meaningful and rewarding life.
Posted by: Inasy at May 16, 2005 09:11 PM
"... the smell of my kids dippers used to make me high" - you mean in the "before" state, I hope! Or is that hoping too much?
As I write this I know your timezone has already moved to the 17th - so, in the interest of equal opportunity and fairness, I wish Amin a very happy (and game-free) birthday!
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at May 17, 2005 12:36 AM
Well, I called to wish Kiana Happy Birthday with no luck. In case I ran to the same luck for Amin's birthday, Please wish him a very happy birthday with lots of laughter and zereshk polo. Lots of hugs and kisses (on the head!!!)
Posted by: Maryam at May 17, 2005 09:59 AM
oh my dear man, if you have not gotten a good sniff of a full diapper of your kids, You are missing so much. You might one a try this, send some of yours to the labratories, they would send you back, a dried version of what your kids would have been, put some in a diapper, add some water, let it sit over night , and then,take a whiff....
SWEET MESTERY OF LIFE AT LAST I FOUND YOU. try it.
Posted by: Idinraha at May 17, 2005 11:32 AM
Dear INASY, please do not deprive us of your writings and wise comments, I look forward to hearing from you, so stay with us please
Posted by: Idinraha at May 17, 2005 11:34 AM
I did pass your BIRTHDAY wishes to Kiana, she is greatfull, and will do the same for Amin, thanks LiL sis
Posted by: Idinraha at May 17, 2005 11:36 AM